Licensed Clinical Social Worker
Amira Martin is a licensed clinical social worker practicing in New York. Having done her master’s degree from the Silberman School of Social Work at Hunter College in 2002, she gained over 20 years of experience working with adults and children. Amira is an adjunct lecturer at the Columbia University School of Social Work and the founder of Amira for Her, a well-established private practice serving a large group of clients.
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The term “relationship bases” has gained popularity in recent times. Americans have popularized the phrase. The phrase and its references have made their way in American pop culture and are often found in teen movies, songs, and TV shows with metaphors. But what exactly is it? It has become an integral part of the Gen Z lingo as the youth uses it many times in their conversations. Knowing such popular lingos can help you stay up to date with the current scenario and enlighten you about the subsequent steps into the dating game. Read this post about the different meanings of relationship bases and learn the tips to keep in mind before exploring these options. [mj-toc] What Are The Bases In Relationships? In baseball, the bases are key to scoring runs. The player who bats has to hit the ball and touch first, second, and third base in the correct order and then return to home plate (fourth base) to...
Disagreements are natural to occur between two persons or in a relationship. But did you notice that it is always you who is blamed? Maybe you do it to resolve the situation or to make the other person happy. Or is their victim complex personality manipulating you to surrender and make them feel good? If you notice that your partner always becomes defensive when they feel wronged or unfortunate, and you feel hesitant to be held accountable for their actions, you may be dealing with someone who has a victim mentality. Read on to better understand what it is, its causes, and the techniques you can use to overcome it. [mj-toc] What Is Victim Mentality? Victim mentality or victim complex is an acquired personality trait. Those with this trait see themselves as victims of the world's injustices. They often feel maltreated, persecuted, oppressed, or belittled and are sensitive to criticism. They may feel like everything in their life is unfair...
The memories of reading wedding vows are cherished for a lifetime. During the wedding, you vow to be there for each other at all times. And to love your partner through thick and thin. This marks the beginning of a new life together, and the vows help you express your gratitude and excitement to your partner. However, sometimes a little assistance while writing your vows can help you come up with something special and heartwarming for your partner. And we are here to help you with that. Read on for a few samples of vows and find the one that inspires you the most. Quick fact Marriage vows are a signal of a lifelong commitment to your partner. Remember to work hard, be patient, and stay committed to making it work. [MJ_RELATED_LINKS href="https://www.momjunction.com/articles/role-of-a-wife_00445110/" title="Role Of A Wife: 17 Things To Do For A Happy Marriage"] [mj-toc] Wedding Vows For Her Writing wedding vows is not easy. Here are different examples...
A relationship in today’s world means different things to different people. For some, it defines their persona, while some others are burdened by the fear of missing out on its nuances. This gives rise to the need for reassurance in a relationship, helping partners understand the depth of their commitment and avoid misunderstandings. Asking for comfort requires clear communication and trust between partners; giving reassurance warrants a clear understanding of each other’s needs. From hugs and affirmation to acceptance and flexibility, appropriate forms of love expressed in a relationship help reassure your partner that they are important to you. Continue reading this post to learn more about reassurance in a relationship, why you need it, the signs to look for, and the ways to ask for it. [mj-toc] What Is Reassurance In A Relationship? Reassurance is the process of using verbal message vulnerable with each other. It also helps instill confidence in the relationship and increaseses or physical and material...
Marriage might seem smooth sailing when you marry the love of your life. Even with a few fights and arguments, the relationship can be healthy when you maintain a balance. But when things are one-sided, and you constantly ask yourself, ‘why my husband yells at me,’ you alone cannot keep the marriage stable. It’s time to dig deeper and figure out the reasons and triggers for his outbursts. Yelling is a form of expression and can become verbally aggressive with time. People resort to such behavior when they are stressed, angry, or frustrated. If your husband keeps yelling at you, it hurts you and the family. Instead of waiting for him to change, understand what makes him do it and how you can help him and your marriage. Continue reading, as this post may give you answers to your unsettled questions. [mj-toc] Is It Normal For Your Husband To Yell At You? Yelling or shouting is not an effective way...
You have done everything to keep the connection. But still, the relationship fell apart and left you with sadness and despair. Breakup, especially when the relationship is long-term, can cause grief. In fact, you go through different stages of breakup. There is no running away from the pain and hence you may find it hard to deal with feeling heartbroken. Grief is a typical reaction to loss. To help you with your journey, we bring you this post on stages of grief after a breakup and tips to overcome. Read on and analyze your feelings. [mj-toc] What Are The Seven Stages Of Grief After A Breakup? Understanding the stages of grief after a breakup can help you become more self-aware and compassionate. The phases might occur simultaneously or at different points. Your ability to prioritize meeting your objectives will bring positive results. [caption id="attachment_1050524" align="alignnone" width="720"] Image: Shutterstock[/caption] 1. Shock Shock may be the first painful thing you experience when...
[mj-toc] What Is A Soul Tie? A soul tie is a strong and potent connection that you feel for a person. It is a spiritual link that consumes your body and mind as you are into them mentally, physically, or emotionally. It is not like any other relationship since it has a profound and lasting effect on you. When you find your soul tie, you might experience a drastic change in yourself. Sometimes, it can take over you and your life. This stronghold of a soul tie is what makes the bonding unique. [MJ_RELATED_LINKS href="https://www.momjunction.com/articles/symbols-of-love_00750224/" title="25 Unique Symbols Of Love And Their Meanings "] [mj_protip type="Do remember" title="Do remember"]A soul tie can form such deep roots in your soul that you might not move on even years after breaking it up.[/mj_protip] [totalpoll id="1132433"] What Are The Types Of Soul Ties? Not every connection is the same, and soul ties are classified by the way they are formed and the purpose...
Whether by choice or circumstance, being single has its own pros and cons. If you are looking to find out the benefits of being a single man, this post is for you. While it’s great to have someone to share your life with, being single gives you a sense of independence and an opportunity to discover yourself on a deeper level. You have plenty of time to explore the world and follow your passions, and you can also engage in hobbies and activities that make you feel alive. In short, you have autonomy, you are accountable to nobody, and you have the freedom to try new things. Read on to understand the benefits of being single and embrace your singlehood with open arms. [mj-toc] 15 Benefits Of Being A Single Man Read through this post to find out the benefits of being single that will help you embrace your singlehood. 1. You have time for yourself One of the perks...
When we love someone, we tend to overlook some of their flaws and mistakes, making emotional manipulation in relationships tough to spot or recognize. Manipulation and coercion is not confined to just romantic or familial relationships, it can also extend to other parts of your life. If you are with someone who leaves you feeling obligated or guilty, confused or insecure, you might be in love with a manipulator. Manipulation has patterns of behavior that can help you discern it. This post discusses the various signs and tactics a manipulator uses and ways to handle them. [mj-toc] What Is Manipulation In Relationships Manipulation is the act of controlling a person's thoughts, feelings, and behaviors through words or deeds. The purpose is to hold sway over another person in a way that will benefit them. It can happen in any kind of relationship, close or casual. Manipulation is also a form of emotional abuse that leaves the victim confused, anxious, depressed,...
Being around your special one is in itself an ineffable experience and sharing a kiss with them can be even better, isn’t it? Kissing is a special moment that makes the bond or relationship between two people one to be cherished. However, how to kiss someone and how to make it unforgettable for the person you’re sharing the kiss with are questions you may be grappling with. So, to help you be a better kisser and make the experience surreal for both you and your partner, we explain the need for kissing in humans, its importance, and also kissing tips in this post. Read on! [mj-toc] Why Do Humans Kiss? [caption id="attachment_1050658" align="alignnone" width="720"] Image: iStock[/caption] Kissing is the most intimate act that humans indulge in to express their love and closeness toward a person. But how do you kiss? There are different types of kisses to express different feelings, so how you kiss can convey your feelings to the...
Imagine having someone in your life with whom you can be yourself. This person who loves you unconditionally is your platonic soulmate. In a platonic relationship, there is only pure love and no romance. Your platonic soulmate feels your pulse and reads your inner feelings. In our ever-changing world, where relationships end in a blink of an eye, a platonic soulmate is one of the few people who are by your side through thick and thin. Your soulmate may be your friend, colleague, or some distant relative. They can be of the same gender as you or of the opposite gender. How you know them does not matter because you feel a strong sense of familiarity and affinity for each other. To better understand this special person, let's look at the meaning of a platonic soulmate and signs that you have found one. [MJ_RELATED_LINKS href="https://www.momjunction.com/articles/soul-mate-vs-twin-flame_00705737/" title="20 Main Differences Between Soulmate And Twin Flame"] [mj-toc] Do Platonic Soulmates Exist For Real?...
Whether a relationship is based on consensual trust or forcefully knotted, it can lead to a successful marriage or a shattering experience. Irrespective of who is fickling around, your mind could hover over generalized questions such as ‘Why do men cheat?’ or ‘Why are women unfaithful?’ Cheating happens intentionally or otherwise for multiple reasons. It breaks the commitment and trust of the people you love. This betraying act could even lead a partner to have life-long trust issues, depression, anxiety, and even PTSD. If you relate to the emotions and are looking for answers to why men become unfaithful or how to identify them crossing boundaries, reading the post can help you. [mj-toc] Do All Men Cheat? It is a bit of a stretch to say that all men cheat, as it is not true. Both men and women cheat in different ways–some are identified, and others are not. Although the common perception says that men are more inclined to...
Love or romance is a complex and mysterious emotion that has captivated the hearts of humans from time immemorial. The concept of romantic attraction is even more fascinating as it delves into the psychology and biology behind why we are drawn to certain individuals and find them irresistible. In this post, we get deep into the factors that play a role in romantic attraction, from physical attraction to emotional connection and everything in between. Read on to learn more about this powerful force that plays an important role in our lives. [mj-toc] What Is Romantic Attraction? [caption id="attachment_1050607" align="alignnone" width="720"] Image: iStock[/caption] Romantic attraction is characterized by feelings of warmth, euphoria, and strong affection for another person prior to establishing closeness (1). You admire them and cherish every opportunity you get to be around them. It typically encompasses a longing for closeness and intimacy with another person, and may include feelings and the desire for a romantic partnership. This kind...
If a relationship is a house, it is built with bricks of love, respect, emotions, and trust. But did you know that sex is also one of the important bricks to keep the house solid and sturdy? The importance of sex in a relationship depends entirely upon the couple. It helps them bond intimately and makes them feel one. But how significant is physical intimacy in a relationship? Can a relationship stand stable without sex, or will it start to wobble? To understand this better, let's explore the importance and benefits of sex in this article and find ways to enhance it in a relationship. [mj-toc] How Important Is Sex In A Relationship? [caption id="attachment_1049932" align="alignnone" width="720"] Image: Shutterstock[/caption] Chemistry and physical attraction are important for a relationship, and sex is a way of showing how attracted you feel to your partner. It also expresses love and affection. However, physical attraction is temporary and fades with time. The need to...